Showing posts with label siblings. Show all posts
Showing posts with label siblings. Show all posts

Sunday, August 23, 2026

My Sister is Going to Kill Me

MY SISTER IS GOING TO KILL ME by Nina Simon (Mother-Daughter Murder Night) is a closed room mystery of sorts. Two very different sisters, a rule-follower and State Department employee named Liv and an impulsive elementary school art teacher named Mandy, are setting off on their annual sister trip. This year they are rafting on the Colorado River in the Grand Canyon. It turns out their fellow adventures are all associated with a wellness company called Babette Botanique. The CEO misses the kickoff of the trip and disagreements amongst the leadership become apparent, especially when threats start appearing. Soon, there is a dead body with Liv, Mandy, and their companions in growing danger, not just from the challenging physical environment, but also from an increasingly daring killer amongst them. Honestly, it took me a little while to get over being annoyed by both sisters, but I soon found myself coming to care for them, much as they begrudgingly began to acknowledge their complementary skills and affection for each other. The mystery is suspenseful and full of details in a fabulous setting.

Wednesday, August 19, 2026

Road Trip by Mary Kay Andrews

Publishers Weekly called the latest novel, ROAD TRIP, by Mary Kay Andrews “perfect for the beach bag” and it is a light read, with a combination of historical fiction, mystery, and romance. Two adult (thirty-something) sisters, practical professor Maeve and carefree struggling actress Therese, are brought together by their mother’s recent death and her squandering of funds on a televangelist. She wanted them to repair their relationship with a trip to Ireland and they travel, hoping to establish provenance for a family painting and thereby secure an inheritance. At first, the sisters are not very likeable characters, but the trip gradually transform them. Plus, Andrews weaves in the story of Kathleen Connor, who emigrated to America in 1926 and of an IRA heist in the mid-1970s with the present-day quest. At the end, the sisters learn to admire and emulate “all the gutsy, ballsy women in our family who’ve picked up the pieces and kept going.”

Wednesday, August 12, 2026

When Lemons Give You Life by Anna Johnston

A LibraryReads selection for August, WHEN LEMONS GIVE YOU LIFE by Anna Johnston (The Borrowed Life of Frederick Fife) is the story of an older man, named Griff, who was a Michelin star chef but now lives (according to the author) in “the most negligent nursing home imaginable.” That low quality of care was a big obstacle for me when I started reading about Griff, his estranged sister, Lisa, and his partner, Beau. The author jumps around in time and shares stories from the childhood of Griff and Lisa, (thirteen years apart in age with different fathers) as well as from their adult lives. WHEN LEMONS GIVE YOU LIFE is very cleverly written (“odd that we fear ageing, forgetting how lucky we are to even get the chance”). Booklist says, “Johnston thoughtfully explores grief, loneliness, aging, and sibling relationships while leavening with warmth and humor.” Indeed, Johnston comments movingly on “the invisibility cloak of age and dementia,” while also promoting laughter with some madcap adventures. I found myself coming to care for the characters more and more and particularly enjoyed the last third of the book as conflicts were resolved and reconciliations occurred. One more quote: “What matters – what lasts – is how you love people. How you treat them when no one’s watching. That’s the only legacy worth leaving.”

Thursday, July 30, 2026

Return to Sender by Stephanie Parente

RETURN TO SENDER by Stephanie Parente is a debut novel which succeeds and surprises on many fronts. While mainly a rom com, it explores aspects of identity, friendship, and grief, offering humorous sidenotes and road trip adventure with appealing characters. The most endearing is fourteen-year-old Phoebe who has recently lost her father and is living with her twenty-six-year-old sister, Violet, a teacher. Parente is described as “passionate about writing messy characters falling in love,” and she begins the story with a rebellious Phoebe opening and reading a stranger’s love letter. That leads to their finding and convincing Dex, a troubled young man, to return the letter to its intended recipient, named Catalina. Along the way, the trio visits several highlights (e.g., Yogi Bear statue, Coney Island, a gay bar in Chicago) and experience moments of self-reflection (“The sort of unremarkable night that maybe once would have been easily forgotten, but now I knew to hold onto it with both hands. What a privilege it was to be bored and boring. We were alive at the same time, on opposite sides of the couch. I could have lived in this moment with him forever.”). Violet often focuses on naming three good things and is relentless in trying to stay positive (although her musings about being a guardian can feel repetitive). As readers might expect, there are several romantic scenes as well. RETURN TO SENDER received a starred review from Publishers Weekly (“a zany road trip provides a path to recovery”).

Wednesday, May 27, 2026

The May House by Jillian Cantor

THE MAY HOUSE by Jillian Cantor (The Hours Count) is a book about sisters and the week they spend together each year (“‘It’s my favorite day of the year,’ she called out. ‘May day!’”) at their Grandmother Vera’s house on the beach at Coronado Island near San Diego. The story is sometimes confusing because it skips around in time and shifts focus between Julia (the eldest, obsessing over rules and scheduling), Emily (big-hearted middle sister struggling to find a purpose in life) and Nora, (the youngest, pursuing an acting career despite opposition from their widowed father). Over thirty years, they experience personal and professional upheaval, including marital problems, parenthood for some, and an unrequited crush on next door neighbor, Nate, a local surfer. Given the sisters’ lack of contact during the year, THE MAY HOUSE is somewhat like the Alan Alda rom-com, “Same Time, Next Year,” providing opportunity for readers to judge the choices being made and to observe the characters’ growth. Still, they do care about each other: Julia muses, “Her sisters. She would never love anyone in quite the same frustratingly wonderful way that she loved Emily and Nora. They'd bickered their whole lives. But being sisters always transcended everything else. Their shared history, their shared trauma, their shared DNA. It was all irreplaceable.” Cantor drops plenty of hints about a not-so-secret secret that eventually emerges and propels the sisters forward, embracing the many blessings they have.

Saturday, December 13, 2025

A Family of Spies by Christine Kuehn

A FAMILY OF SPIES by Christine Kuehn is a significant work of non-fiction that reads like a fictional story. Readers will be enthralled and surprised at the real-life twists in this “World War II Story of Nazi Espionage, Betrayal, and the Secret History Behind Pearl Harbor.” In 1994, Christine receives a letter from a screenwriter asking about her paternal grandfather, Otto Kuehn, implying that he had been a Nazi agent stationed in Hawaii just prior to the attacks in Pearl Harbor. What follows is Christine’s account of her research, including a confrontation with her own father, and subsequent discoveries about her own family history. She learns about her father’s older stepsiblings: Leopold, who worked in Germany as a deputy to Hitler’s propaganda minister and Ruth, who had an affair with Goebbels until (the author believes) he found out that she was Jewish and arranged for the family to emigrate to Hawaii where Ruth and her parents acted as spies, eventually appearing on an FBI watch list. It is a truly fascinating account.

I listened to portions of the audiobook which is narrated by Erin Bennett and very well presented. Recommend this unusual, but engrossing, title to WWII history buffs.

Wednesday, October 29, 2025

A Ferry Merry Christmas by Debbie Macomber

A FERRY MERRY CHRISTMAS by Debbie Macomber is a wonderful addition to her collection of gentle romance and holiday stories. In this newly published novel, she introduces Avery and Harrison who meet on a ferry in the middle of Puget Sound. Instead of a quick ride, however, they are stranded for hours due to mechanical issues with the boat. Readers meet other passengers like James, an expectant father anxious to get to his very pregnant wife, and Virginia, an older women estranged from her twin sister. There’s also Beth and Olivia, a mother/young daughter on their way to see Santa Claus. It’s not really a spoiler alert to say that Macomber seems to sprinkle the ferry riders (and even some relatives waiting on land) with romantic pixie dust amidst a delightful holiday spirit. Short (272 pages) and sweet, A FERRY MERRY CHRISTMAS is a perfect holiday read, especially for Macomber’s many fans (over 200 million copies of her books are in print worldwide).

Friday, July 11, 2025

The Correspondent by Virginia Evans

THE CORRESPONDENT by Virginia Evans is a truly wonderful debut novel, one of the best books of the year so far. The main character, named Sybil Van Antwerp, is in her 70s and readers meet her as well as friends and family members through a series of letters, Sybil’s preferred way of communicating. A former lawyer and clerk for a well-known judge, Sybil writes to and receives letter from her dear friend Rosalie, her ex-husband, her brother Felix, her two grown children (another died at age 8), those involved in her law work, the young son of a former work colleague, her neighbor, and inspirational writers like Joan Didion and Larry McMurtry. Secrets and traumas gradually peel back and Sybil increasingly sets herself new challenges while also joining others in reflecting on the past: “You are right about what you said - we are thirty in our hearts, before all the disappointment, all the ways it turned out to be so much more painful than we thought it would be, but then again, it has also been magic.” Kirkus describes this intriguing novel brilliantly: “Evans has created a brusque and quirky yet endearing main character with no shortage of opinions and advice for others but who fails to excavate the knotty difficulties of her own life.”  Highly recommended for all, including book groups.

Another favorite quote: it seems you're the only person on this earth who knows me and knowing you are there is a comfort. Has been a comfort, a great comfort, and I will miss that. The things only you knew -- who else will keep my memories … when you are gone?

Sunday, June 15, 2025

The Family Dynamic by Susan Dominus

                                         Happy Father's Day!

THE FAMILY DYNAMIC by Susan Dominus is subtitled “A Journey into the Mystery of Sibling Success” and was favorably reviewed in The New York Times and The Wall Street Journal  written respectively by Ezekiel and Rahm Emmanuel, high-achieving brothers briefly mentioned in the book. Dominus, a Pulitzer Prize winning journalist and lecturer at Yale, spent years researching a half dozen families whose stories she shares, interspersed with chapters titled Generators, Expectations, Luck and Fate, Finding Nurture, Openness, and Better, Better, Best. As I read about best-selling novelist Lauren Groff and her brother Adam (a successful entrepreneur in the health-care field) and sister Sarah (a world class triathlete and Ironman competitor), I was struck by their family “slogan:” You are so tough!, reminiscent in some ways of the Harbaughs’: Who’s got it better than us?  Dominus describes her own book by writing, “It is safe to say that if this is a book about high achieving families, it is often also about the real costs of having that kind of drive, the sacrifices that having that kind of focus sometimes entails or even the emotional anguish.” And Dominus does more than talk about the supportive role of parents, siblings, and mentors; she also introduces scientists and their research, often providing additional background on their own children. Referencing a “vast body of well-respected research,” Dominus indicates that “parenting effects on children's outcomes … are likely much less dramatic than we have all been led to believe.” THE FAMILY DYNAMIC is a thoughtful work that may require slow, careful reading, but that should spark important conversations on helping children best achieve their potential. The Washington Post reviewer Judith Warner says, “THE FAMILY DYNAMIC will no doubt disappoint readers looking for bullet-pointed parenting-for-success tips. It’s just not that kind of book. It’s better.” 

Monday, September 9, 2024

The Sticky Note Manifesto of Aisha Agarwal by Vohra

THE STICKY NOTE MANIFESTO OF AISHA AGARWAL by Ambika Vohra sets the perfect tone of what it feels like to be unsure of yourself in high school as you strive to complete AP classes, meet parental expectations, and somehow get the attention of a boy you like. Those goals are important to Aisha Agarwal, main character of this excellent, layered debut novel. Vohra says this was inspired by her own story and she evokes plenty of emotion while exploring fate (commenting on the butterfly effect and noting “God wills everything to happen for a reason”); class distinctions and privilege; race, immigration, assimilation, and compartmentalizing. There are insights on loneliness, romance, and family (“It's not easy untying the mental knots created by parents”), too. Aisha has a crush on her former neighbor and co-valedictorian, Brian. Helping her arrange a date with him and accomplish other items that appear as part of the sticky note manifesto are her best friend Marcy, and new friend, Quentin, a senior at another high school who is struggling with Math and the unexpected loss of his father. Aisha is – like many teens – pretty self-centered, but she grows throughout the story as she expands her experiences and shifts her attitude, finally asking, “What if all the stuff I wanted for so long isn't all that great?” At one point, Quentin remarks, “ultimately, people remember you for how you made them feel” and THE STICKY NOTE MANIFESTO OF AISHA AGARWAL is a feel good, coming of age story. Compared to Never Have I Ever, it would be fun to see on screen, too. Highly recommended.

Thursday, February 15, 2024

My Side of the River by Elizabeth Camarillo Gutierrez

MY SIDE OF THE RIVER by Elizabeth Camarillo Gutierrez offers a unique, although sad at times, perspective on being the child of immigrants. Gutierrez is a talented writer quite capable of evoking emotion. For example, it was difficult to read about the nights her parents worked as janitors at a movie theater and brought her (then a young toddler) and her infant brother to that work so the children could sleep and be safe. She chronicles her adventures through grade school and high school – including the absence of her parents for much of that time due to visa restrictions. While sharing her efforts to help a younger brother, this entire story poignantly highlights taking privilege for granted. MY SIDE OF THE RIVER deserves wide readership and discussion, perhaps even as a one library-one book or one school-one book program. I also hope that efforts will be made to advocate that this title (a painful “mirror” for first generation Americans and an informative “window” for others) be included in high school state reading award programs. The publisher has made a series of discussion questions available. Highly recommended.


It could be interesting, for example, to contrast this text with others about overcoming obstacles for economic opportunity in the United States like
Class by Stephanie Land or with another (although much longer and more analytical) newly released text about immigration called Everyone Who Is Gone Is Here by Jonathan Blitzer, a staff writer at The New Yorker – that also has a memorable, beautiful cover.  

Wednesday, August 30, 2023

Happiness Falls by Angie Kim

HAPPINESS FALLS
by Angie Kim (Miracle Creek) is one of the best fiction books I have read all year. That is largely because Kim makes her readers think. She is constantly challenging them – not just to solve a puzzle (and this novel has more than one), but also to re-evaluate prejudices and assumptions. The narrator here is Mia, twenty-year-old twin to John and big sister to 14-year-old Eugene who has been diagnosed with autism and a rare genetic disorder named Angelman syndrome. The entire family has adapted to Eugene’s situation, placing importance on rituals and routines like toothbrushing and family mealtimes. That is one reason it is so strange when the Dad does not come home from the park with Eugene. Mia’s voice in telling what happens over the next roughly 60 hours is extraordinary and very descriptive. Her thoughts are informative and educational, self-reflective, humorous, and troubling. She discusses being part of a biracial family, saying, “It's funny how being different from everyone else in a group can make you feel either isolated/insecure or special/important, depending on the social hierarchy of the trait in question.” Award-winning author Angie Kim has provided another fascinating look at family dynamics and the “shortcuts, cheats, cognitive biases, things we do and assume for efficiency, based on probabilities and statistics, instead of taking the time to figure it out.” HAPPINESS FALLS is highly recommended (and not just by me) – Angie Kim’s latest title is the Top LibraryReads pick for August 2023 and received starred reviews from Booklist and Kirkus, plus praise from writers like Ann Napolitano (Hello Beautiful), Gabrielle Zevin (Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow), Julia Phillips (Disappearing Earth), Imbolo Mbue (Behold the Dreamers) and Mary Beth Keane (Ask Again, Yes). I just realized that is actually a great book group list! Enjoy them all.

In HAPPINESS FALLS the Mom, who has a PhD in applied linguistics, comments about “how we equate verbal skills, especially oral fluency, with intelligence.” Kim later poignantly writes “I think this is why I've written about people who have trouble expressing themselves in my fiction: because the bias against them is as painful and perplexing as anything I've encountered. Whether you're an immigrant, you stutter, or you have autism, aphasia, apraxia/dyspraxia, or Angelman syndrome -- there are so many reasons why you might have trouble speaking unrelated to the quality of your thoughts.” Kim provides a list of resources in her book and on her website for anyone interested in learning more.

Thursday, May 4, 2023

The Secret Book of Flora Lea

THE SECRET BOOK OF FLORA LEA by best-selling author Patti Callahan Henry is a blend of historical fiction and the make-believe world of Whisperwood. Just prior to the Blitz, two sisters, 14 year-old Hazel and 5 year-old Flora, are evacuated to the English countryside where they find a home with Bridie Aberdeen and her son Harry. As a source of solace, they secretly share stories about animals and other inhabitants of an imaginary land and its river of stars. Despite their close bond, Flora goes missing and Hazel spends the next twenty years trying to heal and to deal with the grief and guilt. A seemingly random catalyst for change occurs when an adult Hazel find the sisters’ secret stories in print – how did the American author come to know so many private details? Hoping that she has found Flora alive, Hazel begins to make inquiries, some of which threaten her employment and future marriage. Chapters are often alternating between events of 1939/40 and 1960, allowing readers to experience those slices of British life as well the actions that impact the sisters. The writing is quite engaging and the characters are very likeable. Despite some repetition when the author keeps stressing how critical the Whisperwood stories were, the ending is a surprise. Enjoy works by Fiona Davis, Jamie Ford, and Christina Baker Kline? They are amongst the many who praised THE SECRET BOOK OF FLORA LEA; this title also was chosen as a LibraryReads selection for May 2023.

Monday, April 3, 2023

Coming of age stories by Aleman and Berg

BRIGHTER THAN THE SUN by Daniel Aleman (Indivisible) is a young adult novel which features a sixteen year-old main character, Maria de la Soledad (called Sol), who clearly struggles with age appropriate identity issues: “even when I try my hardest to be Sol [sun/happy], Soledad [solitude/lonely] has a way of winning ...” All of that is complicated by her status as an American citizen although the rest of her family (including two brothers) have Mexican citizenship and live in Tijuana. The text deals with themes of grief, responsibility, immigration, racism, familial ties and expectations. Sol crosses the border each day to go to school and eventually moves North to continue high school and live with friends while working part-time to support her family. I personally found the effort she made to be crushing and unfair. It reminded me of a cousin who, with little guidance, chose to work 40 hours a week during high school and is now a widow with four young children, perpetuating a life of limited opportunity, even though her siblings graduated college and enjoy six figure incomes. BRIGHTER THAN THE SUN highlights the tensions and pressures faced by students who do not have a strong safety net and adult support. Sol’s deceased Mami was correct when she stressed the importance of education and I do think that teachers would have been more aware and understanding, but they are mere shadows in this story. Sol perseveres, though – she is resilient despite the loneliness she faces. Fortunately, friends like Ari (plus her mother, Nancy) and co-worker Nick fill some of the gap and reinforce a sense of hope. The publisher provides an online book club guide with discussion questions for this emotional text.


In EARTH'S THE RIGHT PLACE FOR LOVE Elizabeth Berg offers a prequel to
The Story of Arthur Truluv, sharing Arthur’s coming of age story as a teenager in 1947 Mason, Missouri. The story reflects Berg’s typically gentle, heartwarming writing style, but there is not much action. Arthur falls in love and deals with several family situations, particularly his relationship with his older brother, Frank. Praised by authors like Adriana Trigiani (Big Stone Gap), Rachel Joyce (Miss Benson’s Beetle), and Debbie Macomber, EARTH'S THE RIGHT PLACE FOR LOVE is sure to please loyal Berg readers who will enjoy this relatively short novel with its small town setting and homespun feel.

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