What's My Teenager Thinking? by Tanith Carey

WHAT'S MY TEENAGER THINKING? is written by Tanith Carey, a journalist who has consulted with clinical psychologists in developing this guide. One of the most remarkable aspects of this book is the colorful layout on each page (see sample image below).  Writing to parents, there often are boxes which highlight “what you might be thinking,” “what she or he might be thinking,” and “how you might respond.” Separate chapters for the ages of 13 and 14, 15 and 16, or 17 and 18 incorporate developmental differences. A wide range of topics are covered; here are just a very few examples: “You’re so embarrassing;” “I’m gay;” “Social media;” and “Sex and Contraception.” 

WHAT'S MY TEENAGER THINKING? is subtitled “practical child psychology for modern parents,” but it also definitely feels as though there are aspects of this book which would be helpful to middle and high school teachers, at least in terms of better appreciating students’ perspective on test-taking and study supports, friendship issues, and worries about the future.  Some topics could possibly even be modified to share with students themselves – either during a health class or in an advisory or homeroom setting.  Raising these issues seems especially important as we continue to cope with COVID-19 and the added pressures the pandemic is causing for family dynamics and for adolescents themselves.